
By mid-September students everywhere have returned to classrooms and if it were marketed simply as “reading, writing, and arithmetic”, most would scoff. (Some may not know the word “arithmetic.”) They would wonder where the STEM programs were and what computer programs were being utilized. It tends to be easy in our modern era to deride anything that is more than a few years old as antiquated and by implication, “less than”. I get that! I spent 15 years of my life teaching in a public educational setting in the 1980’s and early 1990’s and was blessed to have one of Apple’s first computers in my special education classroom. That is more than 40 years ago and behind the times in many ways by 2025 standards.
My education did not start that way as a child. I had the rare privilege of spending grades one and two in rural Ohio in a one-room school where eight grade levels managed to be taught by one teacher with fairly amazing results. (For many homeschool mothers today that would not be surprising.) I confess that I learned a great deal by overhearing the lessons of students in older grades.

The school I attended was the same one my father had attended years before me, but the curriculum had changed by the time I entered first grade at age five. My father’s class used the famed McGuffey readers and other texts authored by McGuffey as well as Ray’s arithmetic books, texts that educated and trained thousands of students in the late nineteenth and early twentieth centuries. I cherish a few copies of those very books that I have on my bookshelves that belonged to my dad and his sisters.
Few (except homeschoolers) would consider using these texts today since they went beyond basic academic subject matter. Stories in reading texts were meant not only to teach reading, but also a set of moral principles and values, love of country, and respect for parents.
When I review the contents of these books on my shelves, I see words and concepts that might cause some contemporary students to stumble not only due to vocabulary words that are no longer common but also due to the level of thinking and maturity evidenced.

That old fashioned generation without smartphones, high tech computers and scientific calculators managed to build the economic engine of the United States. They did so by grounding it on moral, biblical, ethical values and principles as a sure foundation along with academic standards we all now benefit from and take for granted or even shun.
Perhaps we have gone too far, however, in this modernization and started to see something was lost in the process. Homeschooling seems to be one response to an educational system that set aside the very values we all once cherished. Many ridiculed this movement when it started but despite the critics, students who are homeschooled are standing tall in their accomplishments equaling and often exceeding the academic performance of their public school peers. The subjects taught them are quite inclusive and include things like rhetoric and dialectic skills as well as numerous languages, math, sciences, history, geography, music, and arts. Many are taught in various co-op formats where students have spirited interaction around subject matter taught by highly educated mothers (and sometimes dads).
As I reflect on the return to studies by millions of children around the world, I am especially grateful for mothers (and sometimes dads) who are investing time, skills, and numerous resources to homeschool their children. These parents are unsung heroes who sacrifice a great deal in an effort to hold a high standard of academic performance as well as skills such as thinking, evaluating, organizing, time management and more. In the mix they base everything on moral principles that respect God, country, family values, and authority. They are not wimpy followers who are socially inept, but leaders who have been challenged to consider consequences and take responsibility for not only learning material, but also their own behavior and choices.
How do I know this? Our daughter and daughter-in-law have homeschooled all six of our grandchildren in Maryland and Tennessee. Our oldest granddaughter earned a scholarship and graduated with honors from an excellent university with a BSN a few years ago. Our oldest grandson earned a trustee scholarship to a highly ranked private college in a pre-medical program, studied abroad in Chile as a college junior, graduated from medical school and is currently in his third year of medical residency. Another graduated from college with a business degree and uses his creativity and marketing to help make the world a better place developing an innovative business as an entrepreneur. Our middle granddaughter is carving out her own path in the world as she tries a variety of niches. Our youngest granddaughter also earned a trustee scholarship at a highly ranked private college, served as a teaching assistant to two professors, keeps up with violin, karate, had a major role in a fall musical, had a semester abroad in Paris and will graduate in December with a double major, a minor, and a job offer following an internship this summer. Our youngest grandson is currently a mechanical engineering junior at a small private college, plays a beautiful cello in the college orchestra, enjoys karate, family time, and spirited discussions on a wide variety of subjects.
These six have played on basketball, soccer, and swim teams. The one who played high school basketball was on a top nationally ranked team. Among them we have singers, thespians, pianists, a drummer, a violinist, and a cellist. None of them are socially inept or backward. All have held various jobs and completed internships with more to come.
Today I salute my daughter and daughter-in-law for equipping the next generation with the academic skills and moral fiber to make a difference in the world and for eternity. I am so proud of both of you.
Perhaps the admonition in Proverbs 4:7 ESV says it best:
“The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom, and whatever you get, get insight.”

I’m in awe of those who home school. I can understand why the do it, but I’m not sure that I would have had the courage. Thanks for linking up here #TeamWWWhimsy
It takes courage for sure as well as trusting God for the provision to do it. When you see a spark of something click you have taught them, it is a gift that is hard to explain.
Thank you Mom!! It was that one room schoolhouse which fostered the early curiosity to homeschool, “How in the world did they do that?” As a daughter of a teacher, you know I stated many times that I didn’t think that would ever be my path, “Who would ever want to work that hard?” And yet, 23 years of homeschooling later, having spent 8 also as a reviewer, I can say those years have been the most rewarding of my life thus far. Being a part of a child’s discovery, their delight in ‘getting odd’s and evens’ and eating their reward in M&Ms, teaching them to read, become capable writers, watching them soar in their creativity, seeing them outpace me in math, (seriously… where did all the number go? — Calc 2 and well beyond), all the conversations in the car to music lessons and camps, helping them learn to craft resumes, med school applications, interview skills, and celebrating their launching knowing I GOT TO be a part of it ALL. AMAZING grace! I will never do anything more important than what I have already done and I know it. — Thanks for being a part of our journey and giving me confidence during the rough patches which come for every home school mom.
Homeschool teachers are unsung heroes and too often fail to receive the recognition they so much deserve.♥️
This is wonderful and well written. I love seeing your old school photo too!
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Hi Pam,
What a lovely tribute to your daughter and daughter-in-law and a wonderful reminder of values that should not be forgotten.
Thanks, Tammy!