When Did We Stop?

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Not so long ago there were cardinal virtues that were central to our lives, taught, passed down from generation to generation and  considered essential values to live by as individuals, communities and nations. The word, virtue, is rarely mentioned and few could define it or see many examples of it routinely lived out or set out as models. But they have been around as guiding principles since 430 BC, created by Greek philosopher, Plato.

Plato identified 4 cardinal virtues he considered necessary for a happy individual and a good society and the ideal state would be one with people with such virtues. The 4 he identified were prudence, temperance, fortitude, and justice. We hear about  the word, justice, more often but the meaning has taken on more of a personal bias than a universal principle. The other words are likely as common as a horse drawn carriage in 2024.

How would you define those words?

The dictionary (hopefully not biased) defines the 4 as follows:

  Prudence – The quality of fact of being prudent, or wise in practical affairs, as by providing for the future; discretion; care for managing resources, economy; frugality

Temperance – Moderation or self-restraint in action, statement; self-control; habitual moderation in the indulgence of a natural appetite or passion

   Fortitude – Mental and emotional strength in facing difficulty, adversity, danger, or temptation courageously

Justice – The quality of being just; righteous, equitableness, or moral rightness; lawfulness; the moral principle determining just conduct

Later various faiths or religions developed their own lists of versions of these. For centuries they were respected despite lack of perfecting them in the lives of individuals, cultures, or communities. There can be lists of reasons why but the source of most would be the sin nature residing in each one of us that balks at these virtues.

How can we flourish as individuals or societies without these?

“Our lives only genuinely improve when we grow in virtue. The virtue of patience improves our lives. It improves our relationships. Two patient people will always have a better relationship than two impatient people. The same is true for generosity, perseverance, compassion, humility and courage. Growing in virtue leads to the personal and spiritual expansion that are the hallmarks of human flourishing.” 

Matthew Kelly

The Christian faith speaks in multiple ways about virtues but are perhaps best summarized in the teaching of Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount found in the New Testament in Matthew 5-7. Those chapters lay out how we are to live and treat others and if we do, we develop character.

“Virtues are the building blocks of character. ‘Character is destiny,’ the Greek philosopher Heraclitus observed. This is true for a person, a marriage, a family, community, nation, and indeed, the whole human collective. Character is moral and ethical excellence, and it is built one virtue upon another, and the progress of the human race depends on it.” 

Matthew Kelly

When I was in grade school (Yes, a long time ago since I am 80.), my report card had two portions – one was for grades for the various subjects and the other was for my conduct (citizenship) with scores of satisfactory, unsatisfactory, or excellent. A look at this other side reflected evidence of the very virtues I have been writing about here. They were part of the public educational system not my Sunday School curriculum.

Somewhere along the line with emphasis on letting children develop their own identities and self-actualization, their own values, etc., these stopped being a part of that system that had served the individuals, communities, and nations well. Did it happen when prayer in public schools was outlawed or was it really the cause of that decision that eliminated citizenship?

Somehow we have come to value what we call progress as a setting aside things that had been central for a very long time. We stopped citizenship evaluations. We stopped teaching civics. We stopped teaching cursive writing and a long list of things known to much of western civilizations. What did it get us? Is that what caused the overall loss of a moral compass no matter what faith we have chosen to believe. 

We must have decided something on to the road to “success” was missing when identifying emotional intelligence (EQ) was lacking since it was a greater predictor of “success” than IQ.

“But when will we begin the epic conversation that our culture so desperately needs around Spiritual Intelligence.” 

Matthew Kelly

Individuals and societies have abandoned virtues as backward thinking and old-fashioned and I might ask, “How’s that working out?”  

It can seem overwhelming when we look at the negative domino effects of our individual and collective choices to make progress the goal in an ever-changing nebulous set of ideals.

If we recall these virtues and consider them of value, perhaps change begins with each one making a decision to look at their own citizenship or deportment and aligning these to those very virtues.

“The world is desperately in need of change. We are agreed on that. The real question is, what are you willing to do about it?” 

Matthew Kelly

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5 thoughts on “When Did We Stop?

  1. Pam, I am not sure when the conduct portion of report cards were dropped from public schools. While I am about 13 years younger than you, I remember that portion very well. It was just as important to my parents as the academic portion. So much is being dropped from not only education but the molding of our children. And to answer your question – it is not working out very well. May we be diligent as parents and grandparents to model and teach virtue to the next generation.

    1. I love that you recall these changes and are 13 years younger than I. For all we may see of shifts in education, these things really start in the home and with the family. Our fast paced lives with every family member going in a different direction much of the time may have given us a consequence or two we didn’t realize.

  2. I take heart though in that while not everyone lives by instilling these virtues these days I have found evidence of them in many of my boys’ friends and acquaintances (I hope it goes without saying that I’ve instilled them in my boys too!). I’m not sure why we don’t see more evidence of them in the big picture of life and society but I can definitely seem them played out in smaller interactions between people. I blame a lot of the “bad” behaviors and attitudes people seem to have adopted on social media. It seems like the more disconnected people come the more the only care about themselves..

  3. I’m not far behind you, Pam, at 75. I ask myself some of the same questions. When did those things stop being important? Where did we get where we are today? If I didn’t know that God was ultimately in control, it would be terribly disheartening!

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