Few things can demonstrate our challenges with patience more than when we face a delay. Despite planes, trains, and cars going faster than ever before, they still cannot guarantee we will not face a delay. And it doesn’t stop with traveling. It happens any time there is something we want or believe we need and it doesn’t happen “on time” (our time).
Delay is a bold reminder that we are not in control and we don’t need to be a ‘control freak’ to struggle when we face it.
In our modern day culture we expect everything to happen quickly. The technology of our day helps create that illusion. We “instant message”, use the drive-through to pick up our Starbucks, microwave, tweet, and listen to more books than we read. All are designed to help us while we are “on the go” and to access anything and everything we need while doing so.
The problem is that technology still breaks down. We are so tied to our computers, iPads, and smart phones that we are almost helpless when they break down, a server crashes, or we lose one of them.
And it isn’t just a technology issue that creates delay. Construction barrels and detours 
slow us to a crawl or stop for minutes or hours. The weather’s fickle predictability (despite satellites) delays and cancels flights, trains, buses, and cruises.
More and more medical portals are designed to keep us in touch with appointments and test results that we are eager to receive, but using them is too often still a grab bag and not nearly as easy to utilize.
Vacations can reward us by disconnecting with time, but they pass too quickly and sometimes still do not release us from the grip of time.
I have experienced more than a few delays in my lifetime and have had a front row seat to others in my family who have had them as well. Recently I watched as our oldest grandson waited to receive an acceptance from a medical school that appeared to be very much delayed.
How easily we can forget (if we even know) that delays serve a purpose. The delay in our travel plans sometimes helps us avoid an accident or some other thing far worse than being later than we wish. A delay on getting a job we hoped for can sometimes mean a better offer comes through.
Delays are not new to humanity.
Long before cell phones and jet travel, speed limits and computers, humanity had to wait and face delays. The Bible shows us many examples.
An angel was delayed on the way to Daniel for 21 days. A child didn’t arrive for Sarah and Abraham until they were very old. The children of Israel were delayed in slavery in Egypt after Joseph’s death until Moses was raised up. Entering into the Promised Land was delayed 40 years. Making a list of all the delays in the Bible would be an intriguing exercise since we most struggle with delays that come from God.
When prayers are not answered, answered as we wish, or in a timely manner, everything in us can struggle with questions about God’s goodness, grace, mercy, and love for us.
One of the most poignant passages in the New Testament is told in John 11 when the close friend of Jesus (Lazarus) becomes ill and then dies. Mary and Martha, sisters of Lazarus, are in sorrow and know if Jesus had been there this would not have happened. They had seen Jesus heal others and knew He could do it.
More upsetting perhaps was that Jesus knew Lazarus was sick and delayed going to his bedside before he died.
While reading this passage I noticed a note about the passage that offers so much wisdom to the dilemma of delay:
“The discipline of delay is one of the hardest lessons we must learn as followers of Jesus, especially when it is God who does the delaying. Only grace can enable us to accept God’s rich vocabulary of answers to our earnest prayers − “yes,” “no,” “not yet,” or even “yes, but it’s going to feel like no” − because we trust that he “is able to do far more abundantly than all we ask or think.” (Eph. 2:30)
Pam, a fine post! Thank you for reminding and encouraging me this day that delays have purpose and reason. I am grateful that God is in control no matter what. He is my All and I want to remember that when I am waiting.
Thank you, Linda! It’s a reminder that I know I need as well. (I think we all tend to need this one.) Have a blessed day.💕
Everything comes so quickly to us now that we don’t know what to do when it doesn’t. Great post. laurensparks.net
So true, Lauren! Thanks!🌺
This is a well-timed post for me, Pam, so thanks for this big-picture view of delay that brings my confessional theology and my practical theology into the same room together. Belief in the sovereignty of God should change everything in my acceptance of God’s timing.
God is good! He seems to send me things that are well-timed for me as well. I think most of us are challenged to bring these two into the same room and walk them out consistently.💕
Great post! I literally just talked to my husband the other day about this because a friend was complaining that her daughter’s flight was delayed. When asked why she said the weather. I told my husband I’d much rather have my flight delayed in bad weather than risk my life!! It’s hard to remember that sometimes when we are inconvenienced!!
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Thanks, Diane! That’s a great illustration and so on target! My “work area” is to be sure I am leaving on time so that the delays are not because I did one more thing before leaving the house. That was a habit before I retired as there never seemed to be enough time to get everything done. I am thankfully gaining ground on that now. I always love linking up at your website and appreciate your biblical posts and all you share!🌹
So true, Pam. Delays remind us that we are NOT in control. God is. The most frustrating delays in my life were when I was expecting. My first son arrived 2 weeks past his due date, my second 3 1/2 weeks late, and my third 3 weeks late. They all arrived in their own good time! 🙂
Those stories remind me of our daughter’s pregnancies that were invariably late. My pregnancies were before the days of ultrasounds so it was less certain what an actual date would be. I sometimes wonder if that was better. At first our son (first born) was supposed to be born the end of July and then the doctor said the beginning of September. He actually arrived on August 20. How times have changed!!!😊
I find it easier to exhort others to wait on God with contentment than when it is my turn to do so! Thanks, Pam.
Me too, Sue! Thanks for taking a moment to comment.🌹
“How easily we can forget (if we even know) that delays serve a purpose.” I always need to hear this reminder, Pam. I don’t like delays (but if I have a book with me, they’re a little better, ha). Thanks for encouraging us to find God in both the good things AND the the things we don’t understand.
Thanks, Lisa! I carry a book everywhere with me as well and even if I only read a paragraph, it seems to help a lot….especially if I am in a physician’s office and my BP will be taken😂
It can be so easy to miss these little opportunities to trust Him. My issue is often that I have left my house later than I needed to and then my impatience doesn’t yield to what I know to be true. 🌺
Delays teach us patience! Something I need more of!
Don’t we all, Teresa!😊
I always think that delays are God’s protection. When in traffic and my impatient husband gets cranky I always say “God is protecting us from something.” I believe many of our delays are the sovereign will of God!!!
I heartily concur, Susan, and that represents growth over my tendency to be impatient (especially with traffic). 💕
Wow, Pam! I really needed this today. Thank you for your writing. It’s a gift to me from God!
Thanks, Molly! It’s a delight to see how something the Lord gives me to write 10 days ago arrives on my site today when you needed it. Posting it today seemed random to me, but wasn’t random…it was His gift to you!❤️