Growing Up, But Being a Child

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Many of us remember the story of Peter Pan and especially the movie as well as the live production aired on television a few years ago. One of the many songs Peter sings is one with the lyrics “I won’t group up”. Peter and his band of boys have many adventures, but never do they want to grow up, go to school, or be forced to do anything adults feel they IMG_0173should do including take responsibility.

 

J.M. Barrie’s story is a delightful excursion into battles with Indians, pirates, a princess, and of course the sparkling Tinkerbelle. It’s perfect for every child or child-at-heart’s 469247_2090246632530_874624013_oimagination, but I wonder if we recognize when we also struggle with growing up.

 

I think I grew up being somewhat of an “old soul” whose home life was more focused on chores and responsibilities than playing games and living in a fantasy land of pirates and fairies. It probably took me into adulthood until I realized the fun and freedom of being playful. My grandchildren helped me a great deal in this area, but I still am not as free as they are.

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Consequently, when I saw in the gospels that we are to become like children in our faith in Jesus, it was harder to identify what that would look like. Over time, I grew in my understanding. As I sat alone with Him in my quiet times with journal and pen in hand, He would sometimes seem to speak to me about what it might look like.

 

In the autumn quite a few years ago as I was journaling with the Lord about this, I sensed Him letting me know that even though I was growing in my understanding of being a child in Him I sometimes made Him into “a serious Papa” and that I needed to see Him smiling, eyes twinkling, and delighting as He did with children as He walked the earth. As a child, I would trust Him without doubting or questioning if He would be there for me.

 

PICT0213 (1)He gave me a sense of the absolute trust a child has when a loving dad invites his child to jump into his arms. The child doesn’t question whether the dad will be there. The child believes the loving, caring, and strong daddy will always make the catch and jumps without doubting.

 

He seemed to give me permission to know that enjoying Him in that way did not diminish my reverence of Him if I trusted Him as such a child would do. Very clearly, my journal that day sensed these words from His heart to mine, “You’re allowed to laugh with me, dance with me, crawl into my lap and hide in the folds of garments, but you will need to learn to risk more and be more of a child with me.”

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I knew He was not suggesting I be childish or irresponsible. There were battles to fight, but not with imaginary Indians and pirates. There was the need to serve selflessly rather than with self as focus as is often true of us as children.

 

So what would it mean to grow up while yet being a child? The best description came from C. S. Lewis in Mere Christianity. Let me share it with you.

 

 

Christ never meant that we were to remain children in intelligence: on the contrary. He told us to be not only as ‘harmless as doves’, but also as ‘wise as serpents’. He wants a child’s heart, but a grown-up head. He wants us to be simple, single-minded, affectionate and teachable, as good children are; but He also wants every bit of intelligence we have to be alert at its job, and in first-class fighting trim.”

 

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*Sweet photo remembrances of six grandchildren from years ago who have grown up way to fast, but love the Lord with child-like trust and abandon as they move into adulthood and quickly move through their teenage years.

8 thoughts on “Growing Up, But Being a Child

  1. I think I understand what you mean about being an old soul, even as a child. Though I believe I understand the childlike faith and trust, I don’t think I’ve ever understood the childlike abandon. Thanks for sharing your thought on it.

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    1. Thanks! I think for some of us (especially of certain ages) the concept of childlike abandon is harder, but I still believe from my sense with the Lord that it is applicable to us all.❤️

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    1. Yes, Pam, they are and so is the cover photo on my FB page. Photography is a hobby of mine and part of what inspired the website name “A New Lens”. I hope my photos and words will be a new lens to discover something the reader had not seen in quite this way again. Not ALL of the photos in a post are mine, but I use as many as I can if they compliment what I have written.

      The pic of my son and first grandchild eating plums at the zoo years ago is a favorite pic of mine! That granddaughter will be turning 24 this Friday! Can’t believe how fast the time has gone. Her dad and mom are the ones you just did the art for.😊

      Have a blessed day!💕

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  2. Great post Pam, how did your editing go?

    I became independent at the age of 14, so adulthood came very early…necessity made independence a way of life. Depending on the Lord has been a learning experience throughout my journey with Him. Learning to be His child instead of His superhero had been so freeing. 😉
    Jennifer

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    1. Editing took about 10 days and now we are working with an attorney to have her read through it to assure we reduce risk since the book is a true story. Quite a process in the midst of “doing like” and trying to get my posts uploaded😊

      Thanks for what you shared here. Some of us do have life experiences that propel us to independence and subsequently relying on ourselves first of all. How patient He is no matter our background to help us see the truth through His gentle, caring ways.

      Hugs,
      Pam

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