Promise Made – Promise Kept = Hope

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Promise – a declaration/assurance someone will do a specific thing or that something will happen.

 

From early childhood on we become acquainted with the word promise. Children offer promises to parents as well as peers and often do so without a true understanding of the word or the responsibility it carries with it to follow through. Too many times it is offered hastily in exchange for something we desire at the moment.

 

That view of a promise can go with us throughout early adulthood and beyond. We seem to have accepted an arbitrary view of our commitment, promise, or pledge that reflects behavior that says, “as long as it works for me.” That reveals how self-focused the offer of a promise has become. Are consequences so rare that we fail to see this?

 

There was a time when a man’s word was worth a great deal and major commitments or deals were closed face-to-face with a handshake. Later yet something might be offered as a pledge identifying the one who promised. There were no lengthy documents written in legalese and sealed by a notary.

 

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It’s very sad that a man’s word is no longer his bond as once was common. Back when those words were routinely used it meant that when the word was offered the man would do it without questions and severe consequences were possible if the word was broken. In some cultures, it meant his soul was bound to that word.

 

Pie crust promises are more common today – promises easily made and easily broken. So, too, with pinky promises.

 

Is it any wonder that trust is hard to give in our modern-day world?

 

Promises spoken before a beautifully clothed group of friends and family on a wedding day are forgotten within a short period and our courts are littered with divorce and child custody cases among those who profess a religious faith as well as those who don’t. That happens with business deals, organizations of all kinds, politicians, and companies who loudly proclaim promises of what their products can do and more

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I think it reflects societies that are absent of honor and respect that are lived out and offered to others out of a set of values and ethics accepted by all as the norm for how we treat one another

 

It’s little wonder that some have difficulty believing the promises offered by those of faith or those who state a belief in the words of the Bible and God. Lack of honor, respect, and pledges have been eroded to the point of unbelief.

 

One of the significant values of reading the Bible and knowing what it says from beginning to end is how you can trace the promises made and given in multiple places that are then lived out. It’s one of the benefits of studying history as well as studying it to learn from mistakes made in the past.

 

Some might wonder if we can really trust those old stories and old pledges made and kept, but the pattern of them in the Bible is clear with an abundance of examples.

 

Let’s consider just one example.

 

At the Seder Passover (Last Supper) Jesus speaks plainly to his closest friends and disciples about what is about to happen to Him, with them, and what He will do. They were consistent with many prophecies of the Old Testament, but still a big leap as the disciples listened to Him.

 

They had seen Jesus raise Lazarus from the dead, heal many, walk on water, and demonstrate who He was miracle-after-miracle, but now He was telling them they would leave his side when push came to shove, He would be murdered through a brutal crucifixion, and then before He ascended into heaven would meet them on the other side of these events.

 

No one had seen or heard of anything like this before, but Jesus was telling them directly what they could expect and what was true. He in essence made a promise to them that He would see them again this side of heaven.

 

How could that be?

 

Jesus leaves them a demonstration of a powerful truth:

 

“My Covenant is greater than your commitment.”

 

He loved these men who had walked with Him during his three years of earthly ministry and He wanted to assure them his promises were sure. They could count on them being kept. And why was that so important?

 

Because it gave them hope to hold onto when He breathed his last breath and was closed up in a tomb.

 

God, Jesus, is not only a Covenant Maker, but a Covenant Keeper.

 

He loves those who are his now and his promise to come back for us is as sure as his promise to meet the disciples after his resurrection.

 

Promise made – promise kept = HOPE!

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Rose Colored Glasses

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Who do you see when you look in the mirror?

 

Who do you see when you look at someone else?

 

The image you see will depend on the quality of the lens you are using.

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Unless it is a high-quality lens, a very expensive lens, the view will likely be distorted in one-way or another and not give you a clear or accurate image.

 

That distorted image will then affect your response to yourself or the other person based on faulty information.

 

Our lens can be flawed from multiple sources. Sometimes the marring comes from bias or prejudice we were taught or caught before we ever knew what those words meant.

 

Sometimes the lens is scratched from wounds we received from abuse, abandonment, or neglect. Sometimes things that have been said to us or said about us that were hurtful and harmful cloud the lens. Too often, we do not see the imperfections in the lens just as many who wear glasses seem oblivious to the dust, fingerprints, and smudges on their glasses.

 

There is a great deal of evidence that suggests when we fail to see ourselves accurately, we cannot really see anyone else accurately because we project onto them our own distortions. That makes it hard to love, accept, trust, or enjoy anyone else because we secretly have difficulty loving, accepting, trusting, or enjoying ourselves.

 

We simply cannot give what we do not own.

 

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Sadly, the distortion doesn’t stop there. It tends to be projected on God as well so that we may not see the truth of who He is, how He loves, and how He desires relationship with us. It can cause us to distrust Him, keep a distance from Him, see Him as angry, and misperceive whatever we read or hear about Him.

 

Where do we get a high-quality lens to see accurately?

 

I know of only one source that can supply what we need. It comes from looking at ourselves and others through what we read and see in the Word. That informs us of grace-filled truth and truth is what produces the clearest lens and the most accurate image. The result is that I can look at you and myself through rose-colored glasses.

 

Most people would say that sounds like a faulty lens where things are depicted in ways that do not fit at all with reality.

 

Rose-colored glasses are something we are chided about using because the phrase indicates we are not looking at things the way they truly are. Is that really the answer?

 

The rose-colored glasses we all need are the most expensive lenses ever created and the only ones that can give us perfect images. We could not afford them. Only God could purchase them for us.

 

These are lenses stained with the blood of the One who sees us as we truly are and yet loves and accepts us. God looks at us through the blood of the cross, the blood that cost Him more than anything else, the perfect sacrifice of love and forgiveness.

 

When we use these lenses, we can see others and ourselves through loving forgiveness even as He sees us. That doesn’t distort reality. It corrects what only He can accomplish.

 

Consider the lyrics of this wonderful song by Wayne Watson:

 

Rose Coloured Glasses

Wayne Watson

Heavenly Father–Have You got a moment
There’s something I don’t understand
How from Your window–Watchin’ Your children
You hold back the wrath of Your hand

Does Your window pane–Bear a lasting stain
That a sinful rain can’t wash away

His gaze always passes thru rose coloured glasses
Everytime He looks on my heart
And thru love’s forgiveness
Thru purity’s fire
I am my God’s desire

Heavenly Father–Just one more question
I don’t mean to take so much time
But tell me–How much did it hurt You
To give from Your garden
The most lovely rose from Your vine

When the petals fell–When the colours ran
Was it then and there You first saw me holy

His gaze always passes thru rose coloured glasses
Everytime He looks on my heart
And thru love’s forgiveness
Thru purity’s fire
I am my God’s desire

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